As I ease off another teaching contract this week and wait to see if a new one comes my way, I'm once more at a point where supposedly I've got more time on my hands to work on my "favourite things." Put another way, now's the time for me to reckon with how I'm to, … Continue reading Time To Reckon With How I’m Showing Up For Family
Yea I know. I talked about almost the exact opposite a few posts ago. That reading as a habit is pretty much dead nowadays. But c'mon, you didn't really think I'd resigned myself to that notion, did you? No self-promoting, self-respecting writer would ever want that, or say that. Other than in a moment of … Continue reading I Need To Rebuild My Reading Habit Once More!
Over the past week, I've had the opportunity to sit in on the meetings of two other men's help groups in my country. Invariably, as someone who has been coordinating a men's group since 2023, I would come to know of other such groups too. More so recently, when I joined up with a men's … Continue reading Building A Community #3: Sometimes The Best Way To Build May Be To Downsize!
One of the things I marvel about my eldest sister (she's 72 years old) is her ability to rattle off hard numbers from memory effortlessly. These include prices of things she purchased, from travel packages to health supplements. She can accurately recall phone numbers, as well as the year various events took place. Or how … Continue reading Are We Truly Seeing The End Of Reading And Attention?
Last Saturday, I had the privilege of being invited to an event where I was to be a "human book" for a day. The inaugural community exchange event, organised by SGPO (Singapore Government Partnership Office) in partnership with culture change consultancy and venue provider Common Ground Singapore, brought together some 100 different ground-up community initiators, … Continue reading Learning And Sharing About Caring Communities As A “Human Book”
Something unexpected and harrowing happened to my family this week. Thanks to a mysterious viral infection that chose my wife for its next victim! It was early Sunday morning, the 28th of June, the last day of vacation for our little family of four. We were packing to check out of the hotel to get … Continue reading When “Viral” Wasn’t Welcomed. Then Came My Birthday!
Today, I am grateful to return to myย guest post series,ย especially after a long break! (If you are keen to be a guest writer on my blog, please check out my guidelines for guest posts by scrolling to the bottom of myย About pageย and share your ideas with me) For more than two years now, I've been … Continue reading Guest Post: Why I am โtech optimisticโโฆ but not in the way you might think
Last week, I talked about my experience building a community. It ended with me on the verge of detailing the "hits", after talking about the "highs". So allow me now to pick up from where I left off. Forming A Core Community Of Six "Leaders" Photo by Mikhail Nilov on Pexels.com I distinctly recalled that … Continue reading Building A Community #2 — Taking The Highs and The Hits
After some three years, I think I've enough experience now to talk about life as a community builder. To be honest, I didn't start off right away knowing I was "building community" from the ground up. Back when it started in 2023, I was just an early recruit into a fledgling community of mostly stay-home … Continue reading Building A Community #1 — Taking The Highs and The Hits
In the blink of an eye, I've spent nine months carewatching my spouse since her cancer diagnosis and surgery back in August 2025. What's that? Don't I mean caregiving? Well, no. Not really. There are many moments I feel not just inadequate, but downright helpless whenever she's in bodily discomfort and even pain. As much … Continue reading “Carewatching” My Spouse. And Myself
