Welcome to my guest post series, and especially to the second and final part of this parenting post by my fellow stay-at-home dad and pal Josiah Ng. (His bio can be found at the end of this post) (If you are keen to be a guest writer on my blog, please check out my guidelines by … Continue reading Guest Post: What One Stay-Home Dad Learnt From His Son’s School Meltdowns (Part 2/2)
Welcome to my guest post series! (If you are keen to be a guest writer on my blog, please check out my guidelines by scrolling to the bottom of my About page) This year, I was blessed to connect with other stay-at-home dads thanks to a new community of fathers I connected with. One of them is my … Continue reading Guest Post: What One Stay-Home Dad Learnt From His Son’s School Meltdowns (Part 1/2)
Previously I had written about living with my 87-year-old mom and her various health issues. The latest has been her skin condition. For the past several months, we’ve seen her skin turn dryer, even scalier. And she’s been scratching herself almost non-stop every day. Many times to the point of bleeding. To say we’ve sought … Continue reading Parenting in reverse #3 — my mom and aging
Two mornings ago, my wife and I sent C — our youngest with autism — to a three-day church camp. He was kicking and screaming in protest as usual. It’s what he does every time there’s a change in routine. After a while, I too felt like kicking and screaming, as my wife and I … Continue reading Fathering Softer #1 — “being” not “doing”
It’s official. Since my last post on this, I’ve decided: I shall not call myself a “stay-at-home dad” anymore! In fact, technically speaking, I probably couldn’t from the very start when I stepped away from a full-time career in 2018. While I had several weeks and months without any work or income thereafter, I did … Continue reading Parenting Motivations #14 — Am I still a stay-at-home dad? (Part 2)
The Colour of Monday is Blue “Will you pack me a snackFor Tuesday?”“Sure, my son.”I always say “Will you drive over humpsAlong the way?”“Of course dear one”I always say “Will there be school Wednesday, Thursday, FridayToo?”“Yes, my son.And don’t forgetMonday is blue!” (Cos that’s his favourite colourThe colour of the first MondayAfter six long lovely … Continue reading My Monday Metrical Musings #9
In a previous post, I alluded to my apprehension of an impending move. And now, it’s finally here! In less than two weeks time, my 84-year old mom will be moving in to live with us. My mom was diagnosed a couple of years ago with dementia. Over the course of that time, we’ve watched … Continue reading The Stay Home Dad’s now a Stay Home Son.
On Father’s Day 2021, my musings on the losses and gains of being a stay home dad {A version of this post first appeared here in a local news publication Todayonline. Also, check out a reader’s beautifully written and resonating response to my piece here.} When it comes to parenting, one truth remains today: Fathers … Continue reading ‘Worth in the Hearth’ — A New Masculine Identity?
As parents, we’ve all heard this adage more times than we care to count: For kids, LOVE is spelled T-I-M-E. Cos spending time with them is the best sign that we the parents care and love them. Many have even gone on to qualify that it’s not just about Quality time; it’s also about Quantity … Continue reading To a child, LOVE’s not only spelled “T-I-M-E”; it’s also spelled….
It was supposed to be my day to retreat away to ponder and blog. But as it is I’m finding myself now blogging two days later, having been on the fly as I juggle several things these past 48 hours. Not many would appreciate that being a full-time stay home dad (and son) can really … Continue reading Kept Busy from my Simply Tuesdays
