Life Skills I Do Not Have #4 — Thanksgiving

Tomorrow, many celebrate Thanksgiving in the United States, where it is a public holiday and families travel across the land to reunite and celebrate the occasion together. Depending on which website you surf, anywhere from five to over 15 other countries in the world have their own version of Thanksgiving too. Not so here in … Continue reading Life Skills I Do Not Have #4 — Thanksgiving

Life Skills I Do Not Have #2 – Rest & Relax

Since resuming keyboard lessons in September, one of my many life skills pursuits, I’ve been finding the journey pretty much a roller coaster. Some days I would ascend to such heights of musicality I would surprise even myself; like the scenery you get at the peak of a roller coaster ride. Panoramic and breath-taking! Not … Continue reading Life Skills I Do Not Have #2 – Rest & Relax

Our “Autism Enabling Masterplan” – An Introduction

When you have children with autism, you suddenly become more attuned to what society can or cannot do to help embrace and care for your kid when you go. Will they find a life partner and become parents themselves one day? Will they gain decent, secure employment in an environment that is accepting of their … Continue reading Our “Autism Enabling Masterplan” – An Introduction

From ‘Aware’ to ‘Accept’ – my unfinished autism journey

[An edited version of this post first appeared here.] C: “Mister Miss Fairy!” Me: “Carrots and Potatoes…” His older brother: “…with Beef Stew!” These are words my sons and I say to each other whenever C is upset, feels threatened, or thinks he’s in trouble. And to diffuse the situation and reassure him, I would respond with the … Continue reading From ‘Aware’ to ‘Accept’ – my unfinished autism journey

On Children’s Day: Another stay home dad’s musings

I’m so pleased today to introduce a fellow stay home dad and his musings on Children’s Day 2021 (celebrated today in my country). This is also my blog’s very first guest post on parenting! Woo-hoo!! (For more in my blog on parenting, click here) Cliff Tam’s a friend I got to know in June this … Continue reading On Children’s Day: Another stay home dad’s musings

Our Autism Enabling Masterplan – High Priority Area #3 of 6

Maybe I’ve hit the halfway mark here as I explore the topic of autism via a new master plan. Whatever it is, I now find this master plan series a lot harder to write about than I imagined. Why? It has a lot to do with what I’ve learned so far, including this particular HPA#3 … Continue reading Our Autism Enabling Masterplan – High Priority Area #3 of 6

My “Writing Heroes” #2 – Those who publish late in life

Have you heard of “The Fraud Squad“? Neither have I. But I’m betting you’ve heard of “Crazy Rich Asians” and “The Devil Wears Prada.” Well, it seems that a fellow countryman, or should I say countrywoman, of mine had just scored a major coup! At the tender age of 23, Ms. Kyla Zhao hit the … Continue reading My “Writing Heroes” #2 – Those who publish late in life

I pray weekly for my special boy in these 7 areas – for his future

Every parent has aspirations and dreams for their children, spoken or otherwise. I’m no exception. What is an exception though is the stuff I hope for when it comes to Caleb. The majority of the world of parents with neurotypical kids can more than reasonably hope for their offsprings to grow up strong, smart, independent, … Continue reading I pray weekly for my special boy in these 7 areas – for his future